A Simple Love

Love is beauty in simplicity. Why should make it into complicated ones?

I got confuse recently by a random question from somebody that asked me, “What kind of love do you choose? Is it the simple one or the complicated one?”

Then no doubt, I straightly said “The simple one.”

I have realized that I don’t have thousand experiences about love. Yet I have also realized that mine wasn’t that complicated. Well, I’m pretty sure by saying I choose the simple kind of love, people will easily think that I am the childish one—that kind of person who doesn’t want to get any difficulties in love. Do you think so, readers? Hmm, at least the person who asked me that question thought so. But maybe some of you will think about the same way. That’s fine, no problem. I don’t care. In fact, child loves everything simple. And anyway, I’m not 20 yet so… whatever, THAT’S TRUE.

Therefore, it is also true that I believe something simple is much easier to take than something complicated. Sometimes we think that the more complicated love we experience, the more we will get lessons from that. And the more complicated love we experience, the more we will learn how to maintain this heart department of life.

But let’s be honest to ourselves… As humans we have the tendency to avoid difficulties but still wanting to gain a great result. And yeah, I agree and believe this kind of basic behavior. That is why I rather choose the simple love ones. Actually not to avoid difficulties, but in my opinion, why we should make an over complicated love while we can still enjoy something more simple? The person who asked me said “the more complicated love we experience, the more we will get lessons from that”. Hello? Excuse me… why we should wait to experience the complicated love until we learn how to maintain our relationship? And why we should wait to experience the complicated love to get lessons? Why? What is wrong with the simple love? We cannot learn many things from simple love?

Hmmm I should tell you, folks, we can still learn something… to simply love your partner. YEAH! That’s the first lesson of simple love, dude! When all you should do is only love your partner simply and treat them well with all your heart, why you should wait until difficulties come and hit you? Instead, the first lesson to be learned on how to maintain this heart department is to love simply your lovely ones. You can still show your affection on small and simple things like morning kisses, your shoulder to cry on, sudden hugs, etc. When it comes to Valentine day for example and you can’t buy a big fluffy-smelly-hairy-teddy-bear, just have some coffee time on your favorite coffee shop together. Don’t be so over-react by arguing it, girls, because after you start to argue or complain, the effect is too complicated to be handled. Trust me.

I admit though sometimes when we already simply love our partner, problems still often times happen. But once again, don’t over react about it. It’s normal. When it’s not that complicated issue, don’t ever try to make it sounds serious. Just remain calm, pull yourself back, convince yourself that everything is going to be fine, and solve it with a simple way as possible. With all your heart, you should also convince your partner to hold still and not making it too over complicated.

Believe it or not, they will soon do the same to you. Simply love you with all their heart. And they will absolutely believe that this love is worth to keep. No matter how surrounds you may bother, as long as both of you still take a good care of each other love—each other hearts, your love will long last as the seasons change overtime. And that is how beauty comes by itself. How beautiful moment you will about to see and experience when both of you facing some big problems but still wanting to walk hand in hand to face them together. Simply because you still love each other and you don’t want those problems caused a single damage in your relationship.

See? 
Love is simple. 
Love is beautiful. 
Love is beauty in simplicity.

Fyi, i'm not a love expert.

Just trying to tell you what i know.

Hahaha don't take it hard

(WoF)