The Perks and Not So Perks of Using Dating apps

Here's the thing about finding your date or probably your future potential girlfriend/boyfriend using dating apps: IT SUCKS.

Well, first of all you just have to know that this post is all on my own opinions. So whether you may feel like related to it or disagree with it, its all yours.

So yeah, let's begin with REJECTION.

There's always 95% chance of you being rejected or you be the one who reject them. The point is, because you met through dating apps, there's a whole lot of free way to both parties do the rejection. I mean, because they have the rights to do so. Why not? In fact, its just merely because you haven't known each other before, you haven't met each other before, so it means because you barely know each other, it feels okay to just dump your date and leave each other for no other reason than those i mentioned before. Because hey, in the end, in your defense excuse you might (and allowed to) say easily that you are not really into dating a complete stranger because you barely know each other. You don't know him/her well enough. And then suddenly it's all done. You both walking into separate ways in a blink of an eye. EVEN when both of you have not had the privilage to finally meet and talk face to face. So yeah, rejection sucks and dating apps provide the worst yet legal (because it makes sense, eum..) excuse for y'all.

I mean, when you had the chance to get to know someone in a real life-with face to face meetings, casual talks, that kind of rejection  won't happen as much as rude through dating apps. (Not that i'm taking dating apps seriously.) But at least, in real life they'll let you know that they are not into you anymore. Whether it's just by their gestures, their rapidly decrease talks, but somehow it shows something. For real. Indicates certainty that both of you will going nowhere in the future and from it you can actually decide to do something as a response. Not just being left with uncertainty of not replying your last message for ages, then suddenly appear and apologize like they're just going to toilet whatsoever EUWH. Hell no, so that's why i say in the end, dealing with rejection that comes through dating apps is way more sucks than in a real life because they kept using that same old reason of not knowing each other well enough (duh!?).

Although what happen later after the rejection really says something about the perks of using dating apps. You know what it is? Those recovery times won't take too long. Trust me, its because you don't feel like you are attached to that someone you found on dating apps, so you just feel okay with it, and you keep on walking. You can still breathe. Your life doesn't have anything to deal with them. They're not your classmates, they're not your peer friends neither close friend, and they're not somebody your life attach to. Even they are not your taxi driver. (Or if you are unfortunate, they actually do but you just don't realize it HA) so the point is clear: you don't really need a whole weekend to mopping around and feel like shit after you're being rejected or either you who rejected. You don't have to feel guilty or sorry to them because its just like it is, how dating apps are suppose to be about (gotta emphasize this: Do not reuqires feelings a.k.a just for fun slash no hurt feelings after the rejection. No terms and condition apply!). Yep, the cycle is still going on no matter what happen to you.

So well, if i may say, you should instead cherish the rejection like you cherish your first encounter with your now ex-potential date or gf/bf. The excitement when you both finally matched on the first place should be repeated by itself in time when you are finally reach the stage of rejection. Because, hey, you can still live your life. You are back on a real life you're suppose to be! Back on the market sales, they say. Should be grateful for that, aren't ya? So thank them then for throwing you away BACK on a real life when everything feels literally real. Constant and certain. Why bother to make it hard with those clingy bump in the road you call it former potential blablabla. Hehe... (but if you consider it as something that brought a color in your life, i'm out.)

Hope you got my two points out of the above. That somehow rejection can have its own perks and not so perks in terms of using dating apps.

So i guess, good luck then! On finding your perfect match with dating apps.

Anyway, in another occassion i'll write again about things that still entitled to dating apps because this is fun to do though (start stacking up some drafts). Because while others looking for someone who they can dump or ask out, and there's me digging for something else i can write about here. So for now: Behold, everybody! And lets join me to sing Christina Perri's song that always be my national anthem during strolling around those world with bunch of clueless strangers inside... "🎵who do you think you are🎵"

STAY AWESOME! 🔪🔪

(WoR)